Hints from Heloise: Prepare your will in advance

You might consider writing a letter to a number of people, which is to be mailed or handed out only after you’ve died. Place the letter and any accompanying photos in an envelope, seal it and write their name on the front. If you do write a letter to someone, make it personal and kind.

Don’t wait until the last moment to do this sort of thing, because you might not be able to write or make your wishes known. I am paying for my own funeral as well as picking out the songs I want played for my church mass.

I may be old, but I’m not ready to go just yet. I hope to see more great-grandchildren enter this world someday.

— A Reader in Youngstown, Ohio

Reader in Youngstown, Ohio, you’re right. Not just elderly people, but anyone 21 and older should have their will made out. It will make things so much easier for your friends and family to know what you want and who gets your possessions.

However, never put in your will how you wish to be buried or cremated. Tell people before you die because a will is read after your death and burial.

— Heloise